Gail Faris MFT

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On Relationships and Love 

What I know for sure about love… Love is an impersonal and powerful force in the universe that teaches each of us EXACTLY what we need to learn in order to grow and expand in this lifetime (if we will only let it!).  Gail Faris MFT 

What I have Learned from Love….I have learned humility….truly loving someone is really about learning to love one’s imperfect self.  Gail Faris MFT 
What love has taught me…Love has taught me to open my heart more and more with each new love I have encountered.  Perhaps it’s about taking more of myself into my heart over time.  Gail Faris MFT
The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are. Stephen R. Covey

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.  Anthony Robbins

When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.  Deepak Chopra
The value of a relationship is in direct proportion to the time that you invest in the relationshipBrian Tracy

A deadness occurs in relationships when people are no longer willing to tell each other how they really feel.  Shakti Gawain

Before you try to change others, remember how hard it is to change yourself.  Bill Bluestein

Everyone and everything around you is your teacher. Ken Keyes, Jr.

It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.  Sidney J. Harris 

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.  Rumi
The differnce between acceptance and withdrawal is resentment. Terrence Real

On Personal Growth 

Insist on yourself. Never imitate.  Ralph Waldo Emerson 
Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.  Anais Nin
There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.  Anais Nin 

People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built.   Eleanor Roosevelt

I cannot say whether things will get better if we change; what I can say is they must change if they are to get better.  Georg E. Lichtenstein